packie88 Posted November 23, 2006 Share Posted November 23, 2006 Okay so this happened a while ago and wasnt gonna bring itup but i finally decided to let you guys all know. I was looking to get a grill and the black corner lights from pathfinder jay. i made an offer and he only shipped the lights saying that was what the deal was for but it wasnt, even in his pm to me he said both, here are his pm's and mine back and forth. Jay- Hey bud make me an offer and ill shipe her out Me- would upi do 50 for the corner lights and the grill (what year is the grill from) Jay- For grill and lights, ill do 60, lights are brand new... bare with me please Me- yea no problem 60 sounds fair. do you have paypal Jay- Yes I do, ill get ya the shipping quote, whats your address again? full one so im ready to ship after aswell Thanks Jay Me- 26528 se 20th pl sammamish wa 98075 usa Jay- Expedited Parcel USA (9 business days) Base Price $16.85 Delivery confirmation Included Fuel surcharge $1.26 Coverage Included Total $18.11 Xpresspost USA (5 business days) Base Price $23.55 Delivery confirmation Included Fuel surcharge $1.77 Coverage Included Total $25.32 Purolator International (1 business day) Base Price $69.95 Delivery confirmation Included Signature option Included Fuel surcharge $5.25 Coverage Included Total $75.20 Small Packet USA Air (See Canada Postal Guide) Base Price $7.90 Coverage Included Total $7.90 PS this is the minimum... im not sure so if you can please add 5$ to each shipping price to compensate for the charges + paypal Thanks Jay Me- aite sounds good whats you paypal address. ill let you know in that which shipping i want. Jay- paypal= billing@xsessive.com Me- payment sent Jay- Will be shipped first thing Monday Me- hey jay where you able to ship the grill out. i got the lights but have not recieved the grill Jay- I thought our final agreement was just the lights... The grill is pretty pricy to ship out... its a large package and fragile... Let me know Jay Me- from a previous message QUOTE Personal Message Pathfinder-jay Hey, Jul 9 2006, 10:04 AM For grill and lights, ill do 60, lights are brand new... bare with me please Jay- Shipping of he grill will be more expensive bud... If not ill send you 15$ back and you just keep the lights... up to you Sorry for the confusion Me- orginally only wanted the grill as i had lights that work, then i saw your post of the lights in black and figured they would match to go along with the grill. i offered you 35 dollars plus shipping for the grill and you were okay with that. so i think that you should ship me the grill. if not i can always post up with the messages you sent me and just let the people know on here not to deal with you. Jay- fist of all you paid me 25$ for shipping and for the grill it would be 50+ Dollars... im very sorry for the confusion sir, If you wish to send the lights back and I refund you money id be more then happy to. Once again sorry Jay Me- how do you know it would be 50+. have you weighed it or even tried to find a box. Jay- Alright bud like i said ill pay shipping for my lights back and we will just forget about it. I just paid for those lights brand new... my grill is 15 years old and shipping to the states for a box that big is expensive. Im very sorry for the confusion I dont know what else to say. Can we not come to some agreement. I obvioulsy didnt mean for this to happen or I would of charged you more on shipping.... Jay Me- you also even asked me for an overall price. i gave yo one, then you raised it and i agreed to that. so to me it seems like you know what you were doing. check your sent msgs and read through them. Jay- Ok bud no problem Me- alright then ill ship em back. i want a full refund then. Me- have you sent the refund and the money to ship em back Jay- Im sorry im not paying you to ship my own lights out. I gave you those lights way below cost. If you dont want them ill refund your money but not the shipping cost. Id just loose more money. I did this as a favor... im pretty poor if you have not read my recent adventures with my pathy and em in the mists of going through court. Im not sure what you want to work out but I cannot afford to pay for shipping again bud. Try to sell them on here... you where not the only one who requested these lights... so im sure you could sell em and make your money back in no time Jay- Hey bud whats going on with this? Please keep me posted Id like to resolve this Me- m just gonna drop it and not deal with shipping it back. so i will deal with being ripped off and i will not do buisness with you again. Thank you So pretty much he says one thing then your like okay and then he wants a completely different one and is not willing to stick to his word and is not trustworthy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
88pathoffroad Posted November 24, 2006 Share Posted November 24, 2006 This isn't the first person to come forward with problems buying things from Jayson, either. What's up, Jayson? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted November 24, 2006 Share Posted November 24, 2006 I don't know what to say, things seem to be really hit and miss with him. I dealt with him for my skids, and everything went really well. However, that was after things got ugly with Marcel, and I was basically paying Marcel what Jay owed him for the skids. Basically, Jay, make it right. You're giving yourself a real bad name in this community, and while things were okay after the whole thing with the skids, this type of thing is making it very difficult to trust you. Your PM's clearly state that you're sending the lights and the grill.....do the right thing, even if you take a loss on it. It's your mistake. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SuperSon Posted November 24, 2006 Share Posted November 24, 2006 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Dank Posted November 24, 2006 Share Posted November 24, 2006 I always thought the guy was sketchy starting from Day 1 when he joined the forums trying to advertise his site on here. Karma will catch up to him if he decides to not resolve the issue. Packie, you know his address...There's probably an NPORA member or maybe his Cousin Vinnie near by that can go by and pick up the grill for you and maybe break some kneecaps at the same time. :Magic: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NismoSkyZ Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 Paypal is very good with disputes. I highly advise opening a case with paypal...It will be quick and easy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navygz19 Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 I always thought the guy was sketchy starting from Day 1 when he joined the forums trying to advertise his site on here. Yep, I agree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vengeful Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 I know his mom's home phone number. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
packie88 Posted November 25, 2006 Author Share Posted November 25, 2006 really well veng if you are near there would you mind picking up that grill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 He's not particularily near there. Actually, I think I (and Pezzy) might be the closest member(s), at an approximate 5 hour drive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slick Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 funny. i was supposed to get those lights 4 months ago. and he was supposed to buy stuff from me and never did. hit and miss is right. open a dispute with pay pal. it'll cost you way more to send the lights back. grilles don't weigh sh!t, and hell, i shipped a large item to canada and it only cost $20 or so... jay.. WTF are you doing dude? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Dank Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 funny. i was supposed to get those lights 4 months ago. and he was supposed to buy stuff from me and never did. hit and miss is right.open a dispute with pay pal. it'll cost you way more to send the lights back. grilles don't weigh sh!t, and hell, i shipped a large item to canada and it only cost $20 or so... jay.. WTF are you doing dude? You're right Slick, grill's don't weigh that much. I mean if k9 can send 88 an 11 pound package of rocks, I would think a plastic grill wouldn't be a wallet breaker... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vengeful Posted November 25, 2006 Share Posted November 25, 2006 Yes, I'm like right next door to him. I'm in Florida, he's in Quebec. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
packie88 Posted November 25, 2006 Author Share Posted November 25, 2006 i realized that after i dont know when and felt stupid, was hopping you guys would miss that one but i guess not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Dank Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 C'mon packie, these poho's don't miss anything! :o :contract: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vengeful Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 Just givin ya a hard time... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
94extreme Posted November 26, 2006 Share Posted November 26, 2006 --> http://www.nissanpathfinders.net/forum/index.php?showtopic=9536&hl= Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Pickles Posted November 27, 2006 Share Posted November 27, 2006 Its sad to say, but his story has always been pretty shady from the beginning. "Hi, I'm gonna drop XXXX Grand to rebuild my Pathy cause I love it. I have no idea what I'm doing, and I keep getting ripped off. What? Yes, I know I could buy a much better Pathfinder for the price, but I like it...." Its been a long debated story for sure. I'd proceed with whatever Paypal remedies you can achieve, or just keep the lights and call it done. But other than that, I'd bet your S.O.L. and should just walk away if nothing better works out. Maybe there should be a sticky about dealing with this guy from the other feedback. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
packie88 Posted November 27, 2006 Author Share Posted November 27, 2006 yeah i already kept the lights and have decided to not just deal with him. it sucks that im SOL but what ever, i just thoguht i would let you guys know what happened and warn you guys that dealling with him is not fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedPath88 Posted November 27, 2006 Share Posted November 27, 2006 Take the PayPal dispute route... or at least look into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navygz19 Posted November 29, 2006 Share Posted November 29, 2006 I'm having an issue with an ebay buyer as we speak and am looking into the Paypal dispute route. I paid for the item Nov. 2nd...still waiting and waiting. I've e mailed him numerous times, each time he replied with another excuse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cdhicks99 Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 Take the hang him by his testicles with rusty barbed fish hooks over a vat of molten magma route. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vengeful Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 I like the way you think....you're almost as twisted as I am... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pezzy Posted November 30, 2006 Share Posted November 30, 2006 Take the hang him by his testicles with rusty barbed fish hooks over a vat of molten magma route. can we hire you to deal with the jackassholes that keep invading the board with trojans? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maxbaby Posted December 2, 2006 Share Posted December 2, 2006 I was just wondering if this is a thread that should be pinned, if not in "off-topic", then in "parts for sale"... I know I'd be pretty choked as a newbie if I got burned by him down the road. ... And someone was mentioning something about him having a website. Is this a web site that sells things? If so, all the more reason to pin it. You Mods KNOW you're gonna get asked about this in the future by another newbie like me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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