Is it normal to think of your wife as MOM?

[vengeful]

I could not tell you how many times my dad has said that about a talk he has given me, and then said 'ok so if she asks if I told you this, only remember the other stuff I told you.'

 

lol

You should work for the Courts!

 

[govols74n]

You should work for the Courts!

 

No joke, thats #2 Vengeful, LOL.....How in the HELL did you figure that out Pez? Wow. -thnkboutit-

[Pezzy]

lol, cuz I usually type like that.

[Guest SuperSon]

dont worry about it too much merlin.Its half caring and half trying to control you.Nip it in the bud now while its still early at that stage

 

Oh yeah ,as long as you dont think of her as your dad youre ok

[milehighcowboy]

damn see pezz got it. yea that was a late night post srry guys lol.

[dagwoodzz]

I call the wifey "Mom" in front of the kids, by her name most of the other times. :X

 

As for the nagging, just try to ignore it. Both of you made most changes prior to marriage. Not much changes quickly after mariage.

[94extreme]

 

As for the nagging, just try to ignore it.

NO, DON"T! nip it in the bud or it will only get worse.

[zonianbrat]

Here you go it works every time:

 

Go up and sit her down and say "Listen bi$ch you need to quit treating me like a "effin child. I want to be treated like the man that I am. I drink and smoke when I want. If you dont like it then you can pack sand cause I am sick of your $hit. Now meet me in the bedroom in 5 with no clothes on or else.

 

Outcome A: She apologizes and says I am glad you are able to express your feelings and assertiveness. I am so turned on that I want you right here right now.

 

Outcome B: (most likely) She kicks you square in the peppers.

 

 

Just kidding around with ya I would never say that to my wife. As my wife is very strong willed (a quality I absolutely love about my her) and would probably go with outcome B.

 

Seriously though you have to communicate. I swear communication is the key to a succesful marriage.

[Pezzy]

probably go with outcome B.

If she didnt, I will for her! Dont be such a jerk! LMFAO

[Slick]

Outcome B: (most likely) She kicks you square in the peppers.

 

 

that would be the outcome with me!

[merlinx]

Here you go it works every time:

 

Go up and sit her down and say "Listen bi$ch you need to quit treating me like a "effin child. I want to be treated like the man that I am. I drink and smoke when I want. If you dont like it then you can pack sand cause I am sick of your $hit. Now meet me in the bedroom in 5 with no clothes on or else.

 

Damn, She kicked me out!!! :o

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Just kidding

 

Thanks for all the words of wisdom guys. I got more replies here than when I posted about Pathfinder stuff. I guess I made it sound worst than it is. I did talk to her but I guess the key is to pick your battles. Sometimes ignore, sometimes fight -argue- , and sometimes just avoid . Depends on the person I guess but as for me I hate talking about stuff that doesnt get you anywhere. She is going away next week and Im going to enjoy it. I think you guys are right, time apart is key.

[zonianbrat]

Sounds like you got the jisst of it!!

 

One more tip from me that I have found to really help is to find a hobby. (if you dont already have one). I have a few like riding the dirtbike, boating or 4x4'ing none of which I have been able to do lately but anyway. What I really mean is a simpler maybe less expensive hobby. I have taken up brewing beer. A hobby gives you a little time away from the fam. Not too much time but just enough. I'd say to brew a batch of beer from start to finish a month later takes a total of about 4-6 hours. Spread out ofcourse. And at the same time try to convince your wife to take up a hobby. My wife has gotten into scrapbooking, simple yet effective as I take care of our daughter for a couple of hours while she gets to do her thing. Just an idea.

[merlinx]

Sounds like you got the jisst of it!!

 

One more tip from me that I have found to really help is to find a hobby. (if you dont already have one). I have a few like riding the dirtbike, boating or 4x4'ing none of which I have been able to do lately but anyway. What I really mean is a simpler maybe less expensive hobby. I have taken up brewing beer. A hobby gives you a little time away from the fam. Not too much time but just enough. I'd say to brew a batch of beer from start to finish a month later takes a total of about 4-6 hours. Spread out ofcourse. And at the same time try to convince your wife to take up a hobby. My wife has gotten into scrapbooking, simple yet effective as I take care of our daughter for a couple of hours while she gets to do her thing. Just an idea.

Thanks for the idea. I currently do have a hobby/career change flying helicopters and now getting my fixed wing rating but its too expensive to do it a lot but it does feel good when I do it. Not much time right now anyway we have a 2 year old and a 10 week old so that takes a lot of time.