I bought my '97 Pathfinder in '09 with just over 100k on the clock. I have really done very little to it - I've added a hitch, wiring, and a trailer brake controller, put a set of 31x10.5 BFG ATs on it, and other than that I've driven it about 45k mostly trouble-free miles. The only ongoing trouble spot is the brakes; I've replaced pads and rotors twice now because of warping issues.
I bought it as a chase truck for my hot air balloon, so most of the four-wheeling it sees is with the chase crew at the wheel rather than me, and most of it is with the balloon trailer hitched up. It's gotten its share of desert pinstriping (which none of the crew will own up to doing), but I have yet to have anything break. It's only been stuck twice, once on a berm getting back onto a dirt road after recovering the balloon (a little digging and a yank with a tow strap took care of that) and once when one of my crew members tried to turn it around with the trailer attached in deep, sugary sand down in El Paso - when I dropped the trailer it drove right out, but it took us another hour to get the trailer back on the road so we could hook it back up. :-)
Anyway, after a long debate with myself about buying something that can haul more people, I've decided to keep the Pathfinder (it's paid for, I know all its little idiosyncrasies, and I still like it an awful lot), so it's time to do some of the deferred maintenance and projects on it. I'm hoping I can get a winch on it for a little less than the price tag of the ARB bumper, but that remains to be seen - I suppose it all depends on my design skills. :-)