What is her reasoning behind denying your want and need to better your Pathy?!?!?!? And this is something that could save a whole lot of money by preventing the drowning of it. I say talk her into it. Let her "pick" the one that she thinks looks good. Then get the one you want. If she notices the difference, just tell her that the picture was for a different year and that this is the same thing just for my year. lol It's got to work. It just has to. If that fails, Just go with the, "Isn't this the one you picked? Oh, it's not. I'm sorry baby, I can't take it back now... It's already been put in."