wallace

I have a 95 Pathfinder. I had the first re-man trans put in 2 years ago. 1 year and 3 months later the trans was having problems engaging in 1st gear when taking off; seemed it wanted to take off in 3rd gear and would not change out of 3rd when driving 60 mph. Same transmission shop said we need to pull it and take a look...... 3 months out of warranty and I said "what the ****"! Kept driving the vehicle, kept getting worse. Took the car in to a friend known mechanic that works on transmissions. Says; you need a new transmission, the last guys were full of ****. Well, Needless to say, the car continues to take off in 3rd gear. I thought by trying to turn off engine and restart car it sometimes works... It did until the starter went out. Took the car to a Nissan dealership. Told me that my starter is fired; the speed sensor is not the right one for this model and something else - can't remember because of the price they quoted me - and that the ecu for the car would not read anything so they don't know what is wrong with the car... but to spend $1900 on these items and then they might be able to tell wht is wrong with the car..... Can someone out there actually tell me something of what is going on with this vehicle? I have gone to 4 mechanics and they keep telling me to put more money into it but they never fix the problem... HELP!