Mystery Solved,
I ended up taking my vehicle to the CDN tire shop in Abby, as it was due for a belt change and mentioned to my friend behind the counter that I still had not resolved my issue with the headlights, I had explained to him that I had tried a used module from the wrecker with no luck, changed the bulb,checked the fuses etc. I got a call an hour or so later from the shop informing me that all the requested work had been completed and , by the way the fellow working on your truck, was familiar with these types of problems as they are common with Hondas,Toyotas,Etc. Well it turned out the module was in fact the problem, but he went out of his way of opening up the module and soldering the connection back to the circuit board, no extra charge, but I dropped of a case of blue as a thanks.
so for those of you with the same problem who are more mechanichally inclined , not spelling challenged like myself, save your selves the 340 bones the dealership charges for the part alone , forget about the diagnose and re& re charge, saved close to 500 bucks.